How to Prepare for Mass

We sometimes forget what is pretty obvious. But sometimes what is common sense, may not be common after all.

So this post is a friendly reminder just in case we come to worship routinely.

1. Plan when to attend mass. Just as we schedule events in our calendars, affixing the date and time for mass means that we indeed intend to carry out a process. It tells us how important the mass is: it is the center of Christian life.

How important is it? The Eucharist is the central reference of all sacraments, prayers, visits to the Blessed Sacrament, devotions, mortifications, even our apostolates or outreach programs. The commandment to love God is first and foremost, and our love for our neighbors flows from it.

If a center is consciously abandoned, the whole Christian life collapses. Observe this. When something is not scheduled, we consciously make that event as an aside: we go whenever it is convenient to us, or whenever we have done everything else.

2. Keep in mind why you come to mass. There are many reasons why we attend the mass. Most of the time, we have an intention to pray for. For some, it is a time to gather oneself, whether to find a time to pick up scattered pieces of our lives, or to ask pardon for the sins that broke our relationships with God and with others. Or we come to mass to thank the Lord in adoration, to join our community in worship, or to be with the Lord as a friend who accompanies us. If we are able to identify the needs to be brought to the altar of God, the mass becomes more meaningful. By preparing our thoughts and intentions, we unite with the cross of Christ with our own crosses in our lives.

3. Pray on the way to mass. It excites and focuses our hearts for what we are about to do. It is like going to a movie: on the way, we become excited to know what we are about to see. Some of us have bought tickets way before its first screening. I remember Star Wars and for some of my students, Twilight.

4. Come to mass with a spirit of prayer. The mass is the summit and peak of all Christian prayer. And thus, we must keep in mind that coming to mass means going to a sacred place to pray. Being with our family, friends or loved one is secondary to being with God. Of course, we can pray anywhere, but in the mass, we come to worship with the community of God. And thus, it would help if our attention is not distracted by our gadgets: perhaps you can play religious or meditative music on your iPod or MP3 players. Use your gadgets to help put you in the mood for the sacred.

5. Intend to participate at mass. Say to yourself: “I will consciously and actively participate at mass today.” There are mainly two factors that make the mass attractive: the music and the homily. However, many people say that the mass is boring. There are choirs who do not enliven worship. Unfortunately, many choirs distract people from praying than leading the people to God. They perform with their vocal calisthenics than serve. The best choir is the “no choir” — you don’t hear the choir because everyone is singing. The worse choir is when you hear ONLY them singing.

The greatest factor that makes a mass bland is the priest. The mass is uninteresting because there are many boring priests: those who do not give stimulating homilies and those who talk forever; there are priests who do the mass sloppily and perform the rites without passion.

This, however, is the good thing if you find yourself in a “tasteless” mass: it is not entirely hopeless. Remember what Jesus said about we being the salt of the earth? This is the time to add flavor: we can spice it up. We can contribute to make the mass better. We can respond, sing, and keep a prayerful silence when it is appropriate especially during the readings and after taking communion.

The mass is a dialogue. Simple: would you like to date someone who doesn’t say anything? That would be a nightmare. A congregation that is not alive, affects everyone else. To behave at mass does not mean that we have to be like the statues of the saints. To behave well today means to participate. Honestly, I get to be excited by people who are alive; but my energies are down if the congregation are unresponsive. I tend to prepare my homilies because the people respond to what I say: negative or not. We affect everyone around us.

There is one good reason why we have to respond by answering, singing and keeping a prayerful composure. When we were baptized we share the common priesthood of Christ. At mass we practice the common priesthood together with the ordained. Thus, the mass is not the sole “show” of the priest, it is OUR mass. We practice our common priesthood when we participate.

And perhaps, when we do, the boring priest and the incompetent choir will be put to shame.

And we will have a meaningful worship.

Published by Jboy Gonzales SJ

TV/Digital host: Kape't Pandasal. Vlog: YT On the Line. Environment, Youth Formation. Music. Leadership. Always dancing to a different drum.

8 thoughts on “How to Prepare for Mass

  1. Hi Father!

    Question lang, related kasi sa mass eh. 🙂

    As you might know, someone from our diocese (Diocese of Cubao) was excommunicated for pretending to be a priest. Were the masses he celebrated, especially the consecrations he performed, valid? And as a corollary question, were the other sacraments he performed also valid?

    Curious question lang. 🙂

    Thanks in advance! 😀


    1. This is what I know about what Canon Law says (let’s not mention his name. We know who he is now): There is a principle called, ecclesia supplet, meaning that that Church supplies what was lacking in the performance of the sacrament. In this case, the fake priest.

      Certain cases: If a mentally challenged individual enters the confessional and pretended to be a priest, the confession of the penitent is valid; but it is illicit, because the minister has not been given faculties to perform it. Another: if a priest forgets a part of the mass and did not realize it (including if no one from the congregation reminded him) before the mass ends, then the mass is still valid, and the church “supplies” what was lacking. The reason is that it is not the fault of the recipient of the sacraments.

      So for those who attended the masses and all other sacraments: be at peace (and since we cannot travel back in time).

      For marriages performed by the fake priest, there is no problem (since there is a contract signed). In Canon Law, the ministers of the sacrament is the couple: the husband and wife. The priest is a witness of the Church and the godparents (and all who were present) are witnesses of the community.

      There is a greater reason: Remember that God’s love is infinitely larger than our structures, including our sacraments. He is not determined by the sacraments rubrics, which includes the fake priest.

      But an important note: In the end, the Diocese of Cubao will have to discern what to do, and how they will handle the case.

      So what can you do: move on, and trust, that having gone to mass because of the Lord is more important than the one who celebrated it.


    1. Sure chester. Yes, I agree, we have to take extra care that our sacred things are not desecrated.

      Sadly, not all churches are secure enough.

      God bless.


  2. Hi Fr. Jboy, Carlyn here po! I am one of the lectors at the EDSA Shrine. I love this article pero may I share this with my fellow lectors? If yes, how do I share this via FB? Naghahanap ako ng “share”, wala akong makita eh.

    Salamat po!


  3. Hello Fr JBoy!

    Thanks for this very enlightening, but easy-to-understand article. Sometimes, I also find it hard to prepare myself before the Holy Mass. This Sunday, I will try hard to practice your suggestions. I am the organist in our parish (San Roue, Gapan) and you couldn’t be more right when you said that the best choir is the “no choir”. I’ll keep that in mind!

    Please continue to inspire & enlighten us!



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